This is silly, especially because there's a limited amount of space in which Goko allows you to stick stuff in the title.
There's plenty of space in the title for all the info you need. "All Sets 5000+ #vpoff streaming" fits easily.
I should not be compelled to play with an extra thing if I don't want to.
Talk to Goko then; it should be simple for them to save the game name as well as any other settings. Though, again, they need to work on stability issues first.
And I shouldn't need to try to guess at what the person joining my game will/won't want.
Right, but reasonable etiquette suggests that the person joining also shouldn't have to guess what the host wants, especially when the host can tell them, before the game, in the game title.
This is like complaining about someone not buying expansions and not saying "base only" in their table name. I mean, yeah, I want to play with expansions, but if it is really important, either host your own game, or ask before joining the table.
Sure, this is why I host all my own games.
I have a LOT more sympathy if it's them that's joining you, where you advertise it, and then they turn it off. There I am with you.
The host can't advertise #vpon and then turn it off, as it's locked and overridden by #vpon in the title. If you're hosting and absolutely hate the point counter, put #vpoff in your title, and the addon will respect that.
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In the end, though, the last word on this is that if you want your own parameters, host your own games.