As I stated:
It really got derailed when the forum members were accused of mocking/insulting/attacking Goon Garden, where there was no malice intended.
Does he read it that way? I don't know. What I do know is that any counter-argument or contradiction to his posts were met with negativity and aggression. I will gladly go back to discover exactly where this happened if you do not believe me. But no one here came out and insulted this guy, or even flat out said he was wrong. He turned this on himself, sadly, and the forum members who responded were then accused of attacking him. Read through it objectively and you will see what I mean.
I read through the thread objectively, it read just like the first time I read through the thread, which was objective. I'm really trying not to take a side here, what I see is happening is that there are two perspectives on this that are different: Goon garden's perspective, and the perspective of the community as a whole (I guess you could say "everyone else" but that's a slight oversimplification. I will make this slight oversimplification). After reading through the thread again, I saw the same 5+ posts that I was thinking of before that I will continue to not point out. They are there, even though some say they aren't and they put your hands over their ears and shout LALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU.
Neither party acted perfectly at any point in this entire exchange. I don't see myself as being part of either party, but rather as one of the very few people (and the only one really saying anything) that actually understands where both sides are coming from (namely, the only one that understands where goon garden is coming from other than goon garden). I thought it would be useful to try and help the two sides understand each other. I don't really feel emotionally invested in this but maybe some people seem to think I am. Go back and look at the nasty threads from a couple of months ago, that's what it looks like when I'm emotionally invested. Does this look the same to you?
The thread derailed when Goon Garden said he didn't appreciate the nitpicking (whatever you want to call it, it doesn't matter) directed towards him, and instead of being polite and stopping, we continued to poke at it and do more of the exact thing he said he didn't like. The community is trying to wash its hands of any blame here and act like nobody did anything that was the slightest bit objectionable when that's just not the case. Maybe Goon Garden wasn't helping but the community we should have here shouldn't care about that; yes I'm saying that the community should be held to a higher standard than goon garden because if we don't we come across like a bunch of jerks to new people to try and post here. BTW, guess how we're coming across to new people?
The telling thing is that goon garden has taken some time and made several posts afterward looking critically at his own actions: something that has great value in Dominion as well as real life (you make your own IRL luck? Nah, needs work). The community, on the other hand, still refuses to look critically at the way it has treated him. You say you are but if you aren't seeing what I'm seeing, you must be looking with your eyes closed. Look harder, it's there. The community should be acting better, and there are so many people out there who just don't believe that anything the community did here was a problem and that all conflict here was caused 100% by goon garden. No. Wake up, make yourself a better person. I even said it earlier in this same thread about Dominion but here it applies to real life: the day you stop looking at your plays [actions] critically and blame your losses on bad draws [arguments on other people] is the same day you stop getting better at Dominion [being inviting to new people on the forum]. I'm getting like really philosophical all of a sudden, where did this come from? This is weird.
I suppose it's getting difficult to continue this without me pointing directly to the posts I find the most objectionable. I'm not willing to do this publicly. I don't know of a way to point this out even though I think it should be obvious. I'm not sure what to do about this.