So, here's this thing. Moderating a forum is a job. But it's like, this job that no one pays you for. It's even a job that no one thanks you for. Why would you do something like that? And like, you're in charge of people. But they don't actually respect you any more than they respect furniture. Even though you're technically in charge.
Forums have a few rules. Most of them are super reasonable, and rarely broken, without need to ever have been read, just obeyed as a consequence of incidentally being a decent human being.
But man, like, you got this job. And all the, powah, man. You need to flex the powah. Maybe there should be more rules, or implied rules? I mean, you have a job. There's gotta be a reason you took this job. You are like, so exalted.
Merely enforcing the rules as they exist and identifying a few clear issues where your users are clearly being disturbed by behavior that isn't covered by the rules is one way you could approach your job, but man, that's the way normal people think. You're not normal, man. You moderate a forum. You moderate this place that anyone in the world can post. Or not post, if you don't let them. Really when you think about it, you're a bigger deal than the chief executive of any particular country. Definitely a bigger deal than your older brother. He was just class president and prom king. Who cares about that.
You gotta go beyond the call of duty. You gotta clean the garbage your users don't really understand is garbage. It's cool, you understand why they aren't enlightened enough to be upset yet. It's not like they are forum moderators. They just show up here. You live here.
Any behavior that isn't quite ideal, remove it. Some post isn't so narrowly ontopic that you could type it into google and find your forum? Obliterate it. Some user posted content that is in the bottom half of the quality of all content on your forum? If you keep nipping and tucking, both halves will be the best half. Someone made a post questioning your hyper vigilance moderating the forum?: It's not clear whether you will mark it as spam or flaming, but that anarchist has made one thing clear:
IT'S TIME FOR A POWER TRIP!!!!!!