I suggested rules modifications because I think they would fix a problem. Why are you getting so confused over that?
Because there is no problem.
There is something about the game that you do not like, doesn't make it a problem with the game.
It is a problem with your own style of play. And you have brought in your house rules to make it fit.
Nothing wrong with that, your house, your rules, go for it.
But what you have done is lost a game and came here to complain its unfair and the game rule is bad, simply because you personally do not like it.
What people are unanimously saying here, is that is part of the actual game and that your reasoning for not liking it is flawed and doesn't hold up.
you have already shown you have a perchance for exaggeration (Your description of your lost game today for example), so your point of view is holding very little ground.
I think if you could post some actual evidence behind some of your statements people would take it a bit more seriously, but the rest of these guys (Not me of course, I'm one of the cool kids.) are hard core maths nerds. They have done all this analysis in the last few years and can probably back up thier point of view with hard evidence.