This is the background I read:
Galen Tyrol, often referred to as "Chief", is the highest ranking NCO remaining aboard Galactica. He served aboard battlestars from the age of eighteen, including Columbia, Atlantia, and Pegasus (Resistance). He has served under William Adama on Galactica for five years (Litmus), and has considerable respect for the Commander - a feeling that is reciprocated. Indeed, he admires Adama to such a degree that he has modeled his own style of leadership on that of Adama: firm, fair, and willing to go to the fullest degree in support of his crew.
However, when people under his responsibility are injured, threatened or killed, Tyrol becomes rather irrational, angry, and reckless in his actions, to the point of further endangering his people or his reputation with senior officers. Prime examples of his lack of emotional control includes the scenes before the ship venting after the nuke hit and cursing Tigh in front of Commander Adama for the vent and loss of 85 of his people (Miniseries), and saving a mortally-wounded crewmate while leaving himself and Cally Henderson highly vulnerable in "Scattered". Tyrol's tryst with Sharon Valerii and a subsequent cover-up attempt in "Litmus" resulted in the jailing of Specialist Socinus, who was trying to protect Tyrol.
Originally leading Deck Crew 5, a team of 15 deckhands and specialists, since the Cylon attack he has become the most senior and experienced NCO on Galactica.
This is from a different, longer wiki I found just now, but basically is a copy/paste from the other. I was actually working off of the wikipedia article on Galen. I do see that in the wall of text, there is reference to the Five stuff. That's my mistake in not reading all the way through, especially given my own thinking that it was important to do the research.
I assumed that having parents and being born and all that would preclude being a Cylon. Having not watched the show, I did not know that Cylons were born the same way humans were, with parents and what not. I thought they were like robots, manufactured and such.
So, much of my reaction was based on an incorrect understanding of my flavor character. I still think exile is the best option.