btw... I still don't get the image thing. the image is on her fb page, so if posting an image is a problem, posting a link to the fb page must be a problem too. but I found her facebook page having zero information except her name. so her name must be private too. but man, it's a name. your name is like the least private thing you have, you get assigned one without your agreement and lots of people know him before you do. would it be inappropriate to post her name?
In this day and age, posting the image *is* giving us a link to the facebook page - I just go to google and search for that image. Then I make a facebook account and say I'm that creepy guy who stared at her in high school, and see what it gets me. But you took the image down :rage:
It's possible that youngsters will have different attitudes towards this stuff, that they will think, of course everyone who wants to can find that naked picture of me that I sent on my phone to my special someone and that they posted after we broke up; everyone has one of those and there's no hiding them. Currently people aren't trying so much to shut down google's image-based search, but somehow they draw the line at it being part of a pair of glasses. I don't really know where things are headed but it's interesting.
I frequently use streetview, and I was looking at a block one day and saw a house that had been blacked out. They must have told google, no, sry guys, do not show pictures of our house on the internets, and google said sure fine np. Those people must not know about the Streisand effect.
Anyway my advice is, go out to eat. Try a different restaurant each night and after a few nights you will have found a cute waitress in the here and now that you can wish you had the guts to talk to, and can stop thinking about this girl from 5 years ago who after all is someone else now.