It seems increasingly active to me, maybe you should be less picky about who you play with?
On a separate note, how would people feel about Oars, Feudalism, and shared Masonry (can't think of any others, in base) being a choice even when you have only one option? The strategical implications on Oars, especially, are notable. If someone has two fives in hand and you hit them with Oars, and isotropic autoselects the card, then you know it's not worth it to use it again.