I think I might be missing the point of Davio's example, as I can't find any interpretation that doesn't make the statement false. If two different methods of calculating a quantity give different answers then one of them has to be wrong.
I don't think we calculate the same quality. In one case we allready drew a sock. Let's say it's red. We can only get a pair by drawing another red one. In the other case, we can either draw two blue or two red socks to get a pair. The probability of things can change depending on what happened allready.
Let's see. I'll break it down to two of each color. I have one sock from the drawer, and it's red. Left are a red and two blue socks. Probability to draw the remaining red sock is 1/3. In the other case, i am supposed to simply draw two identical socks, there are six combinations of socks i can draw, two of which are pairs. So, 1/3.
Now let's imagine one red sock and two blue ones (which is far more realistic as everybody who does their own laundry knows). The probability to get a pair by random draw is 1/3. The probabilty to draw a second red when you drew the first, though, is zero. The probability to draw a second blue one after you drew the first is 1/2.
So i guess in my examples there's a difference only when the groups are not equally likely to be drawn, but at least it shows that we are, in fact, not computing the same thing.